Each  kit should contain:
4 each - plates, bowls, mugs, glasses
4 each - knives, forks, and spoons
A pan and A cooking pot (preferably with lid)
A baking tray/pan or casserole dish
A cutting board
A Large and small cutting knife
A spatula, a cooking spoon and a few more small utensils
A Dish Towel and oven mitt or pot holder
A can opener
Add a few Extras such as a coffee maker, toaster, dish rack, serving thing, or mixing bowl (etc) to each kit
-Minimize the WEIGHT of the box as much as possible - For instance, if you put in a Blender, be sure the other extras are light.
Please make sure everything fits in one box that can close securely, wrap all breakable items, and place the checklist of enclosed items on the outside of the box, including added extras if any.